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Meet Sheri Smith – Be inspired! – @CateringSoCal

Hello, bloggers!

I am pleased to welcome a wonderful lady to my blog today, the multi-skilled Sheri Smith. I’ve had the pleasure of getting to know Sheri over the last several weeks and I couldn’t be happier to spotlight her today. She is so deserving of amazing support and I hope you’ll join me in giving just that to her. Please enjoy Sheri’s lovely post…


First I’d like to say how grateful I am to be a guest! Mahalo Marlena and audience.

Time is all we have. You’ve heard that before and it sounds trite but as I sit here writing in SoCal, I am with my Aunt Sheila in New York mentally who is going to pass through the veil any moment to be with her heavenly Father. Déjà vu. I went through this grueling process with my dad many years ago. I was by his side and the last week sucked (cancer sucks). Aunt Sheila has had a long life of 90 years, I’m pleased to report. She won the best actress, seventh annual Tony in 1953. I write this in tribute to her. She has always been my rock.

As I pondered “what” to write (talking points), it seems that time shall be my theme. Since “that’s all we got”, as “they” say. Has anyone ever figured out who “they” ARE? Why would someone read your work, “follow” you or do anything with you for that matter? We only have a certain amount of time on the planet. Therefore, you better be good, right? I’ve had my fifteen minutes, I am blessed. My gut says there is one more in the future for me.

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Why a screenplay? Is it possible for show business to be in your blood? Besides my aunt, my mother was also on Broadway and she was a June Taylor dancer. I won a starring role on Broadway when I was nine. Here’s Love was based on Miracle on 34th Street, I was Susan Walker – Natalie Wood’s part. And I was so precocious, I was fired. I knew my lines, why rehearse? Gasp. Hey I was nine! I got “discovered” by Norman Jewison. What was I meant to learn?

The longest M&M commercial “melts in your mouth” (I was the clean one) followed. And why WON’T Mars, Inc. let me see my commercial? I’ve been begging for years BEFORE my Aunt was unable to see it again. That’s another blog for another time. I’d like to know what “social” can really do… can they put the pressure on this large corporation to let me see my own commercial – before I die? *sigh*

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After living in Hawaii for fifteen years and learning about Aloha and Hawaiian culture and way of life, I discovered it is immensely important to live with Aloha (love). Treat others. It’s tough and it’s a 24/7 commitment. It can’t be done just when we feel like it, or when it’s easy for that matter. I’m a big believer in Kabbalah, the Law of Attraction and Karma.

And for me, the other and main reason I wrote and still write is for catharsis. The past five years I’d gone through probably (most or all of) life’s most difficult and defining moments that put some of us down. I’m still standing.

My husband and I built a house. Not just any house but #CastleInHawaii. The stress triggered him to manifest with Bipolar symptoms. Then came divorce, moving, Madam Pele and I was on the brink of losing everything that I worked for since 1990. So when my life was unraveling, I started writing. At first it was a blog #WhatCanIDoButWrite. Just LOVE those hashtags, don’t you? I turned those notes into a screenplay. I’d written a few other scripts, but they weren’t good enough to market.


Then came the most difficult time in my life… I had to “do my duty” and kill my best friend, my unconditional lover. My young service dog, Rayla. My furkid. It is safe to say I love fur more than skin. Perhaps that is because I never found the partner with skin to show me otherwise.  I had no choice but to write.


This occurred at the time that Brittany Maynard was going through her ordeal. I feel strongly that we should be able to do this for ourselves! Death with dignity. Kick it up a notch. From what I understand, if you cannot do it for yourself, it cannot be done. If my body fails, pull the plug, give me the drugs, even if I am unable to do it for myself. I KNOW that I want this if there is suffering and the body fails. I’ve seen it too often. And experienced it with loved ones.

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Most of us have to earn a living, hopefully doing something we love or are passionate about. I suspect most of us are not that lucky. And if you are a creative (yes we have a name) then your life might not be as fulfilled as you would wish for. The balancing act is to do both. And ultimately to be successful (and good) at both. I am fortunate that my day job as a caterer and event specialist in SoCal does feed me, pun intended –spiritually, physically and intellectually. Plus, I’ve been doing it for so long that humbly I must say, I’m fabulous at it! In that industry, you’re only as good as your last job.

The script has gone through incarnations since I finished it. At first I hated the title. How could I? But it was not getting any attention on the websites where I was trying to get it seen. Then inspiration came, and I renamed it People Make Plans – that got views!  I researched the title and was incredulous to discover a film by this title had never been made.

Then we get to: the business of show. My dear friend who is a producer in his 80’s told me (when I asked him if my screenplay was any good, did I have talent): “do you see all the shlock out there that gets made? It doesn’t matter.” Sad but true, right? Remember that, educate yourself. Get a mentor and persevere. I asked for patience yesterday, what happened?

I took every webinar I had time for, I manifested a mentor. I made a cheesy website for the screenplay: Inspired by True Events. I’m nowhere near a webmaster, I just did what I had to. There is a link to a piece Olena Heu did on the Castle here: KHON2.  Look Book, who knew? Times have changed. If you don’t bend like a willow, you will snap like an oak.

The reality of getting a film project made is that, if I had to guess…? One in a million to get it developed and one in ten million to get it made. I do believe this will get made. Crazy I know. That’s what my gut says. My best advice? Always listen to your gut. I was hired and read for some of Hollywood’s top bigwigs. I was the gatekeeper. I truly believe that if I am meant to go down, I want to go down in a blaze of glory. It will be reaching for the stars and the moon. When I watch Oscar, I envision myself as one of those stories as I accept my gold who says: ”who would’ve thunk…”

BELIEVE (and manifest). Have support, get a mentor, educate yourself. So here I must say mahalo to my dear friend who is both @AkashaGarnier (#ShineThroughTheNoise). She told me about @_MarlenaSmith_. Also Jeff Solema, a writer/producer/director I manifested and has been there, still is, with me on my journey. I am blessed.

GIVE BACK, be grateful! God and the universe (according to your beliefs) wants something even better for each one of us than we want for ourselves.  Fill your head with positivity, stay away from those who are not. For me it is Louise Hay and (ignorance is a choice today with Bing and Google). I am grateful both have given me permission to use their work in my project. And @OlenaHeu indicated she would do a cameo.

In closing “they” say: ask your audience (do I even have one?) to read your work and give comments. Well most people read a book not a screenplay. If any of Marlena’s audience has read a screenplay (or would like to read one)…  pick me! Love me! (Grey’s Anatomy)

I would appreciate comments from other authors… but since I’m overwhelmed (as most of us are), I can only offer this to the first ten people who email me and ask. ONLY if you are willing to submit constructive criticism (not just “it was good”) but also comments on characters, structure, plot (remember it must be SALABLE)…
I’m anxious to hear what the audience thinks.

I want to be a part of a film project that makes you leave the theater (or the room or bed nowadays) THINKING. A socially relevant film, family oriented film, that makes you laugh and cry and want to do something GOOD. Doesn’t every screenwriter? Filmmaker? So leave your public comments here AND email me!  And thanks for playing/reading!
I am grateful to Marlena for this opportunity to get feedback and exposure!
PS Aunt Sheila passed (right after I finished writing this) 3/25/17 at 8 am New York Time. Aloha and Prayers to you Aunt Sheila, as you travel and return to see Heavenly Father. I will miss you, you were always there for me. Please say hi to my dad, George, gram and pops and of course my boy, Ray. See you all soon!


About the Author:

Sheri Smith started her career at the tender age of nine, when she landed a starring role in a Broadway musical – with no previous singing, dancing or acting experience. “Here’s Love” was the adaptation of “Miracle on 34th Street” and Sheri (Sheri Bond at the time) won Natalie Wood’s part. Commercials, one of which was the longest running M&M commercial ever run (“melts in your mouth, not in your hand”), and soaps soon followed.

Smith worked (corporately) as the “gatekeeper” for Mark Canton at Warner Brothers as his administrative assistant and reader for films, Dick Robertson at Telepictures as administrative assistant and reader for films and TV, and Arthur Axelman, a packaging agent at William Morris as assistant and reader for TV movies. She was a production assistant or assistant to the producer for many indie producers – one (Tom Cole) led to a part in a pilot for one of the first reality shows ever – The Dream Thing.

Smith was encouraged by Dick Robertson to start her own company helping busy Hollywood Execs like himself. Smith called the company Executive Express, Your Personal Runaround. Executive Express was featured on the front page of the LA TIMES business section. Pam Dawber saw the article and liked the idea so much she developed and starred in a television “movie of the week” around Smith’s idea (This Wife for Hire).

Smith turned her entrepreneurial talents to marketing a catering and event production company. She grew the company to a three and a half million dollar enterprise and catered to some of Hollywood’s elite (Mayor Riordan, Rock Hudson, Stefanie Powers and more). They catered to bands and shows for ten years as the exclusive backstage caterers for Irvine Meadows Amphitheatre in SoCal, feeding Michael Jackson and Bubbles, The Moody Blues and The Smiths among others.. After ten years of that grueling 24/7 commitment, Smith decided to move to Hawaii – before total burnout – and build something for retirement (and fun!) – a unique, oceanfront vacation rental, a castle in Hawaii. It was here as she was immersed in Hawaiian culture, she was able to spend time pursuing her passion as an artist, writing screenplays.

Sheri Smith

Wasn’t she a delight???

Thank you so much for stopping by and visiting with us! Please continue showing your support with likes, comments, and shares. Check out Sheri’s sites, her work, her life!

Connect, reach out, make a difference.

Until next time…………Love & Blessings!!!

30 thoughts on “Meet Sheri Smith – Be inspired! – @CateringSoCal”

  1. Yes, we do! What are we meant to learn? The next question (for me) What are we meant to teach?
    So others can learn from our mistakes. Mahalo Staci, sweet of you to take the time to comment. Prayers gratefully accepted. #KeepWriting!

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  2. Sheri, Your journey has been a roller coaster ride from the east coast to the west coast. You’re an amazing women I’m proud to call my dear friend. You continue to learn, grow and become richer with each chapter. Can’t wait to share a bag of popcorn at your movie. Love you xo


  3. Aloha dear Sheri, Marlena and readers! Yes, mahalo Sheri for sharing your heart, words and key moments of your life. I am so glad that you have writing to turn to…and friends who care about you. I am grateful to know you and honored to have known Rayla; I am thrilled to have lived at Castle in Hawaii during a key time in my life between The Valley of the Kings, The City of Big Shoulders, sailboats and #ShIneThroughTheNoise; it paid off with finishing my book and getting life on track. I am sure that Rayla loved going whale watching with us, and that he told his friends in Heaven. 🙂 Yes, there are some excellent stories and lessons in your writing and screenplay for “People Make Plans”. I share your reasons for wanting to to make a film and connect (for more than those 2 hours). I will be honored to write the book when the time is right. Things and connections DO happen for a reason. See you in Cali soon to celebrate life, Aunt Sheila, friendship and bright horizons, bella. Until then, cheers and keep shining bright!! ❤ Akasha Lin

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  4. Yep, Law of Attraction for sure. Today is the day I had to kill my boy 8-(
    At 2pm Hawaiian time. So, I’m honoring him by WRITING… tough day for me. Three years and it still is HORRIBLE without him.

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  5. Aloha Sheri,
    What a touching story. Today I will go to visit my son at the cemetery. It is so hard even as time goes on. We truly have to be grateful for time we got to spend with them. You are so talented and amazing. I miss you Sheri. Thank you for sharing your creative side with us.

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  6. Aloha Angie,
    I miss you too! I know, we must be grateful for the time we had (I say that every day!) Mahalo for always being there for me, my love. I’ll call you or text you when we have some time to KETCHUP (catering humor, get it)…

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  7. A quick thanks to everyone for dropping by and showering sweet Sheri with support. Grateful for opportunities like this, to shine a light on someone so deserving of much more.


  8. Sheri, your story is truly inspirational. I have known you 20 years, first as a client and then as a friend, but I never knew your history! You are an amazing individual with a heart of gold and I KNOW one day, very soon, I will be watching your movie! Blessings to you and much love my wonderful friend.

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    1. Mahalo El! We had so much fun touring the Big Island. I will cherish those memories forever and look forward to our next adventure soon. I so appreciate your support and aloha.

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  9. I have known, worked and partied with Sheri for many years and can say without hesitation there is never a dull moment when she’s in the room, or the house, or job site, or even in the same city!! She is a presence and her love is always there. A great friend and confidant and we’ve shared laughs and tears for so long its hard to remember where it all began. I enjoyed reading her thoughts here and I know she’s been an inspiration to many of us along the way! Best of luck in all your endeavors!!


  10. This was a very inspiring piece and very interesting! I learned so much about Sheri who I have known through her catering business for 10+ years. I love that she works so hard to spread good energy and love to everyone around her!

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    1. Timing is everything. It was a lifetime ago. Yes, I DO try to spread aloha, every chance I get, it’s just the way I decided I want to live in my old age. Hopefully, I will see you soon at the next luau. Your Shave Ice and Kettlecorn is DA BOMB!

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  11. Paul… Mahalo and you too! You are such a talented songwriter, musician, singer and all around entertainer. I subscribed to your YouTube so I don’t miss a thing! If I’m not mistaken, we’ve known each other since 2003 I believe, wow.

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  12. Precocious? YOU? Read this 2X when it first came up. Some of the things we did in NYC were pretty far out too {Lke walking thru a TV studio WHILE THEY WERE OTA!} AND that trip to Redding when your car got a flat and we were picked up by 4 guys and we made it home safely…
    LOVE you, She!♥

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  13. Do you remember I wrote a script after Leslie and my trip to visit Yui in Bangkok? Yes, a TON of good times since EIGHTH GRADE holy cow! Love you more Sea! Mahalo my love.

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  14. Love Sheri’s story! I love the Spirit of the soul that shines through her words. We are forever linked in the love she has shown and the trials we endured. Blessed to be a part of Sheri’s story and her heart. Mahalo my friend.

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  15. Hey Cuz,
    This story touched me in a way that I haven’t been touched for a long time
    It made me reflect on time. Time as a younger woman was always my internal demon. I wanted everything yesterday.
    Now as a grown woman having gone through so many life lessons time is my friend. All we has is time. Time to enjoy life on life’s terms (which aren’t always easy). Going through my mother in laws death your aunt Sheila was one of the most devestating things I have gone through besides my Fathers death.
    This story reminded me that you have to be strong or you will break. You didn’t and neither will I. Love you Cuz. Marcy

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    1. And you just touched me by sharing and I thank you. And also for taking the time to read this when you are going through so many challenges of your own. So grateful for yours and Brad’s support.

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